Envy...Jealousy... (with additional info at the bottom!)
(Hmm… Yeah… I got to let my thoughts out… Here I go…)
Hmm… Envy… A BIG word… Literally it isn’t so long… It’s just a short word. But the meaning is BIG right? The meaning of envy runs DEEP! It could mean JEALOSY, GREED, DESIRE, RESENTMENT, SPITE, and probably many more. Tch! I’ve even checked for more meanings on jealousy… Check it out…!
-feel envious towards; admire enviously.
-a feeling of grudging admiration and desire to have something possessed by another.
-spite and resentment at seeing the success of another.
Hehe… Okay… I’m done with the definitions… Hmm… Actually I’m wondering, the bible and the church say that God created us equally, right? I mean ‘We are in His image and likeness’ so they say. But yet all of us are unique… Huh! Isn’t it a weird paradox? I mean…in that instance, religion and being realistic contradict so much! In some ways luck comes in… It shows that some people are lucky, some aren’t… Some are lucky being ‘blessed’ with beauty, talent, wealth, power, good health, and whatsoever. Uhm…they say all of us are given gifts, right? But there never is satisfaction within us. I admit that even I am NOT satisfied with my life… Some say I’m luckier than others. Whenever we are optimistic we compare ourselves to the less fortunate… When we are being pessimistic we compare ourselves who are more fortunate than we are… I experience that! And it bites…
Hmm… Guess that’s just an intro… Because what I really want to shout out is about envy! Because what I wrote in the last paragraph has something to do with envy. I mean, the main reason that there still is envy is because we aren’t all alike. You can agree on me on that, right? Some people are just plain…SELFISH! They want it all! But the more they want it all; in the end they’ll get nothing! That’s just my opinion… Hehe! A paradox… Some people should be contented with what they have. They should know their limits! And that should go as a lesson for me, too… But I guess its okay to like something… Its like reaching for a dream you’re trying to get… And when reaching that dream, you won’t trash or destroy anyone else’s dream just to get what you want! Uhm… I just damn hate people that are plain selfish… I hate them like hell! Especially when they go raining on my parade! I mean, they go trashing my goal for their own selfish and uncanny reasons… When everything I want, they want as well. When I have something dear to me, and they want to take it away from me! Hah! They should just get a life of their own! Heck, I won’t let them stop me from my dreams! If I have something and they want it, not a chance! I won’t let them have it! Especially when I can’t live without it! Not literally, but you get what I mean… *Sigh* Envy is such a pain…! There will never be any end to satisfy people… Uhm…maybe others are simply satisfied… But, not all are easy to satisfy. And I guess that goes for me, too…
But sometimes, others just want to be plain selfish! They want what others have! TOTAL JEALOUSY! I mean, they don’t WANT others to be happy! And that’s not good, that’s damn EVIL! And I just can’t stand people like that! Hmpf! Like here are a few situations I can relate that to…
1. When a person gets jealous at another person for that person’s achievements. (Most of the time this happens… And the hard part is when the two people are friends. First it’s just a friendly competition… But friends and competition is a hard mix. Sometimes it turns bitter and breaks the friendship ties. I’ve seen stiff like this and I confirmed it…)
2. When a person wants to achieve a goal and another person got it. (That’s hard! When you want something and you didn’t get it… Uhm… Mostly happens among friends… Yeah… I’ve seen this one, too…)
3. When a child doesn’t get attention from parents. Favoritism! (Yeah… Family issues… I’ve experienced this one… Yeah… But I’m over this! I’m not a kid anymore! I’m a bit mature than I was before! Hehe! :P)
4. Being felt an outcast in a group. When someone is best buds with another even when you’re in a big group. (The typical… You’re in a big group of friends, but you can’t avoid that one person is close to another. But the hardest situation here is when there are three in a group… You can’t avoid that the two are close and the other isn’t very much…)
5. When there is a couple and another person is jealous of the couple and wants to take one away from another. And the hard part here is when the person wants the other to love him. Or vice versa! (Uhm… Typical love triangle… The guy loves the girl, and the girl loves him. The antagonist is a jealous lover who wants the love and affection of the girl or guy. Uhm… But I’ve seen this one happen. It was a sad one… I felt sorry for the guy…)
Hmm… There are many more, but its kind of hard to explain… Mainly wanting what isn’t yours… It’s just that I really hate those kinds of people who try doing lives of others… Hah! Why can’t they GET A LIFE! Sometimes… No! Most of the time they do stupid and annoying things… They think that by doing that they will eventually get what they want. But in reality, it goes the opposite way! Uhm, I researched and here are some ways that I found. They say these are the ways how selfish and jealous people deal with their everyday selfish and jealous lives… Hey! It’s hard to researched about this! :P
1. They make up stories similar to whatever they are jealous about. (For example that person knows someone who won an award like this and like that. The person will be like “Well actually a few years ago I had an award just like that! Oh you must be proud! I know the joy you must feel! Blah blah blah…” Or “Yeah, I know that! It is so hard to get an award like that! How do I know? Because I had one like that before!” Or it could be like “I’ve been there too!” or “I’ve already done that many times!” Annoying, right? Hah! Such a wannabe!)
2. Whenever there is a hot topic, that person will always say they know about it. (Uhm, for example the topic is about fashion… Uhm I don’t care about fashion much, but that’s the only topic I can think of as of now. The person will be like “Oh yeah! I know that to!” or “Yeah! I do that also! Its so much fun!” Tch! So pathetic! )
3. The person will say nonsense things just to get attention away from something that he doesn’t know much about. (Uhm… For example, that person will try to blend in a crowd that is talking about something. He’ll change the topic to something that he knows better. Uhm…just a tip for those kinds of people…if you want to prove that you know something about a topic, prove it! Don’t just say you know it, because you’ll look stupid! :P)
4. When a person likes someone but the person he likes doesn’t like him back they imagine way too overboard that they think its reality! (Uhm…you can imagine that, right? But it’s okay to say, “He’s my sweetie!” I mean if you’re joking like that, its okay. Hehe! I joke like that, too! Hey, but not anymore… But it’s mainly because you’re such a fan of that person. And nobody is going to believe you so it’s okay! Go! Aim high! Like your favorite vocalist or model! :P Hehe! Just keep your dream a dream! Don’t be TOO obsessed cause that’s not healthy! Hehe! What I mean is that you say that a person is your ex or your boyfriend or girlfriend because you’re crushing on them! And you make up stories just for others to believe you… And that’s damn desperate!)
The final cut is that people who are so envious and so jealous of others don’t have a life! They can’t think of nothing better they can do but try to make lives of others a misery! They feel that they can firmly put themselves on a pedestal! Haha! Well, some may believe them… Uhm for the people who easily believe desperate lies like those… Please stick to facts! Look for actions and not just words. Because those lowlives try to be what they are not! Try to do what they can’t! Pretend to know what they don’t! They can’t get a life! I pity and despise them! No…not only despise… I HATE them! Grr! Can’t stand them! They’re like…PLASTIC! Grr! And I can’t stand plastics! Ugh… My moods turning red… Hehe! And to those Jealous and envious people…Plastics… DREAM ON! Cause that’s all you can do! :P Good luck in finding a life! Get a life! So you won’t influence others into your ‘world’! Hehehe! Have a nice day! :P
(Phew! Okay… I’m done ranting about this… :P Next entry…)
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Okay... I've read another article at a mag! Hehe! Its just additional info! Hmm... they say "Envy asks one leading question: What about me?" Haha! I'm so damn sick people like this! What about you eh? I don't give a damn about you! Get out of my life! I don't need you! Don't dare come close!
They say that there are 5 main sources of envy. And I can see its true!
1. Material Envy- Yeah... It is all about the STUFF! Material things... Tch! Sure we would like all the neatest gadgets and stuff! But that isn't a good reason to envy and later on hate the person! Tch! Your a shallow person if you envy just for that!
2. Love Envy- Yeah... Most of the telenovelas are like this! Love trials, comparisson of relationships, the "she-has-a-relationship-how-come-I-don't" Uhmm... it says in the mag that women mostly have envy about this. It says that men don't really care about other relationships other than his than a woman. Hehe!Yeah... I see it's kinda true... Yeah...
3. Status Envy- Uhm... The envy of the status of the person in life... Yeah... That explains it all... That person is a 'something' in the business and your just an employee... Uhm...just an example, okay?
4. Career Envy- Uhm...CAREER! Yeah... Uhm... there goes the words "sipsip" to the boss type... Yeah...
5. Body Envy- Hehe! Uhm... Like... You envy a person cause he or she is prettier, whiter, taller, etc. Physical appearance is what you envy about a person... Hehe! But there is such a thing as surgery!!! Hehehe! Just be careful, alright? Hehehe!
Hmm… Envy… A BIG word… Literally it isn’t so long… It’s just a short word. But the meaning is BIG right? The meaning of envy runs DEEP! It could mean JEALOSY, GREED, DESIRE, RESENTMENT, SPITE, and probably many more. Tch! I’ve even checked for more meanings on jealousy… Check it out…!
-feel envious towards; admire enviously.
-a feeling of grudging admiration and desire to have something possessed by another.
-spite and resentment at seeing the success of another.
Hehe… Okay… I’m done with the definitions… Hmm… Actually I’m wondering, the bible and the church say that God created us equally, right? I mean ‘We are in His image and likeness’ so they say. But yet all of us are unique… Huh! Isn’t it a weird paradox? I mean…in that instance, religion and being realistic contradict so much! In some ways luck comes in… It shows that some people are lucky, some aren’t… Some are lucky being ‘blessed’ with beauty, talent, wealth, power, good health, and whatsoever. Uhm…they say all of us are given gifts, right? But there never is satisfaction within us. I admit that even I am NOT satisfied with my life… Some say I’m luckier than others. Whenever we are optimistic we compare ourselves to the less fortunate… When we are being pessimistic we compare ourselves who are more fortunate than we are… I experience that! And it bites…
Hmm… Guess that’s just an intro… Because what I really want to shout out is about envy! Because what I wrote in the last paragraph has something to do with envy. I mean, the main reason that there still is envy is because we aren’t all alike. You can agree on me on that, right? Some people are just plain…SELFISH! They want it all! But the more they want it all; in the end they’ll get nothing! That’s just my opinion… Hehe! A paradox… Some people should be contented with what they have. They should know their limits! And that should go as a lesson for me, too… But I guess its okay to like something… Its like reaching for a dream you’re trying to get… And when reaching that dream, you won’t trash or destroy anyone else’s dream just to get what you want! Uhm… I just damn hate people that are plain selfish… I hate them like hell! Especially when they go raining on my parade! I mean, they go trashing my goal for their own selfish and uncanny reasons… When everything I want, they want as well. When I have something dear to me, and they want to take it away from me! Hah! They should just get a life of their own! Heck, I won’t let them stop me from my dreams! If I have something and they want it, not a chance! I won’t let them have it! Especially when I can’t live without it! Not literally, but you get what I mean… *Sigh* Envy is such a pain…! There will never be any end to satisfy people… Uhm…maybe others are simply satisfied… But, not all are easy to satisfy. And I guess that goes for me, too…
But sometimes, others just want to be plain selfish! They want what others have! TOTAL JEALOUSY! I mean, they don’t WANT others to be happy! And that’s not good, that’s damn EVIL! And I just can’t stand people like that! Hmpf! Like here are a few situations I can relate that to…
1. When a person gets jealous at another person for that person’s achievements. (Most of the time this happens… And the hard part is when the two people are friends. First it’s just a friendly competition… But friends and competition is a hard mix. Sometimes it turns bitter and breaks the friendship ties. I’ve seen stiff like this and I confirmed it…)
2. When a person wants to achieve a goal and another person got it. (That’s hard! When you want something and you didn’t get it… Uhm… Mostly happens among friends… Yeah… I’ve seen this one, too…)
3. When a child doesn’t get attention from parents. Favoritism! (Yeah… Family issues… I’ve experienced this one… Yeah… But I’m over this! I’m not a kid anymore! I’m a bit mature than I was before! Hehe! :P)
4. Being felt an outcast in a group. When someone is best buds with another even when you’re in a big group. (The typical… You’re in a big group of friends, but you can’t avoid that one person is close to another. But the hardest situation here is when there are three in a group… You can’t avoid that the two are close and the other isn’t very much…)
5. When there is a couple and another person is jealous of the couple and wants to take one away from another. And the hard part here is when the person wants the other to love him. Or vice versa! (Uhm… Typical love triangle… The guy loves the girl, and the girl loves him. The antagonist is a jealous lover who wants the love and affection of the girl or guy. Uhm… But I’ve seen this one happen. It was a sad one… I felt sorry for the guy…)
Hmm… There are many more, but its kind of hard to explain… Mainly wanting what isn’t yours… It’s just that I really hate those kinds of people who try doing lives of others… Hah! Why can’t they GET A LIFE! Sometimes… No! Most of the time they do stupid and annoying things… They think that by doing that they will eventually get what they want. But in reality, it goes the opposite way! Uhm, I researched and here are some ways that I found. They say these are the ways how selfish and jealous people deal with their everyday selfish and jealous lives… Hey! It’s hard to researched about this! :P
1. They make up stories similar to whatever they are jealous about. (For example that person knows someone who won an award like this and like that. The person will be like “Well actually a few years ago I had an award just like that! Oh you must be proud! I know the joy you must feel! Blah blah blah…” Or “Yeah, I know that! It is so hard to get an award like that! How do I know? Because I had one like that before!” Or it could be like “I’ve been there too!” or “I’ve already done that many times!” Annoying, right? Hah! Such a wannabe!)
2. Whenever there is a hot topic, that person will always say they know about it. (Uhm, for example the topic is about fashion… Uhm I don’t care about fashion much, but that’s the only topic I can think of as of now. The person will be like “Oh yeah! I know that to!” or “Yeah! I do that also! Its so much fun!” Tch! So pathetic! )
3. The person will say nonsense things just to get attention away from something that he doesn’t know much about. (Uhm… For example, that person will try to blend in a crowd that is talking about something. He’ll change the topic to something that he knows better. Uhm…just a tip for those kinds of people…if you want to prove that you know something about a topic, prove it! Don’t just say you know it, because you’ll look stupid! :P)
4. When a person likes someone but the person he likes doesn’t like him back they imagine way too overboard that they think its reality! (Uhm…you can imagine that, right? But it’s okay to say, “He’s my sweetie!” I mean if you’re joking like that, its okay. Hehe! I joke like that, too! Hey, but not anymore… But it’s mainly because you’re such a fan of that person. And nobody is going to believe you so it’s okay! Go! Aim high! Like your favorite vocalist or model! :P Hehe! Just keep your dream a dream! Don’t be TOO obsessed cause that’s not healthy! Hehe! What I mean is that you say that a person is your ex or your boyfriend or girlfriend because you’re crushing on them! And you make up stories just for others to believe you… And that’s damn desperate!)
The final cut is that people who are so envious and so jealous of others don’t have a life! They can’t think of nothing better they can do but try to make lives of others a misery! They feel that they can firmly put themselves on a pedestal! Haha! Well, some may believe them… Uhm for the people who easily believe desperate lies like those… Please stick to facts! Look for actions and not just words. Because those lowlives try to be what they are not! Try to do what they can’t! Pretend to know what they don’t! They can’t get a life! I pity and despise them! No…not only despise… I HATE them! Grr! Can’t stand them! They’re like…PLASTIC! Grr! And I can’t stand plastics! Ugh… My moods turning red… Hehe! And to those Jealous and envious people…Plastics… DREAM ON! Cause that’s all you can do! :P Good luck in finding a life! Get a life! So you won’t influence others into your ‘world’! Hehehe! Have a nice day! :P
(Phew! Okay… I’m done ranting about this… :P Next entry…)
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Okay... I've read another article at a mag! Hehe! Its just additional info! Hmm... they say "Envy asks one leading question: What about me?" Haha! I'm so damn sick people like this! What about you eh? I don't give a damn about you! Get out of my life! I don't need you! Don't dare come close!
They say that there are 5 main sources of envy. And I can see its true!
1. Material Envy- Yeah... It is all about the STUFF! Material things... Tch! Sure we would like all the neatest gadgets and stuff! But that isn't a good reason to envy and later on hate the person! Tch! Your a shallow person if you envy just for that!
2. Love Envy- Yeah... Most of the telenovelas are like this! Love trials, comparisson of relationships, the "she-has-a-relationship-how-come-I-don't" Uhmm... it says in the mag that women mostly have envy about this. It says that men don't really care about other relationships other than his than a woman. Hehe!Yeah... I see it's kinda true... Yeah...
3. Status Envy- Uhm... The envy of the status of the person in life... Yeah... That explains it all... That person is a 'something' in the business and your just an employee... Uhm...just an example, okay?
4. Career Envy- Uhm...CAREER! Yeah... Uhm... there goes the words "sipsip" to the boss type... Yeah...
5. Body Envy- Hehe! Uhm... Like... You envy a person cause he or she is prettier, whiter, taller, etc. Physical appearance is what you envy about a person... Hehe! But there is such a thing as surgery!!! Hehehe! Just be careful, alright? Hehehe!
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